Author: James Pswarai
“Be all you can be.” Many people live up to this quote. They strive to do their best in everything they do. They give 100% at everything. However, some people want to be more than they can. They will change themselves (through self improvement) so they can become better than they are.
If you want to improve yourself you must first understand yourself. If you don’t understand who you are how will you improve yourself? Well you can’t, you must know who you are, what you want and what you don’t want. In this article I will reveal 10 questions that will help you understand yourself and with this information it will be easy to improve yourself.
1. What do I really want?
Well what do you really want? This can be for both the present and future. Do you want to start a family, exercise more or buy that car you’ve always wanted. Many of us have busy days which mean it is hard for us to think or do what we really want to. If this is you, take a bit of time for yourself to think about this. It helps you think of what you really want to do which is a small step towards improvement.
2. Should I really change?
This is the most vital question to self improvement. Do you really NEED to change? If so what are you looking to change, maybe it’s the fact that you are too shy or maybe you want to change your appearance and maybe even your personality. If you know what you want to change you can start improving it straight away.
3. What's the bright light in my life?
At times life can seem like a dark tunnel and you feel like you will never see the light again. Don’t think like that! You need to think positive. Of course life will have its downside but you have to think positive. Think of the fun things you have done with people, the places you have been and the new people you have met. These things are the light at the end of your tunnel.
4. Am I comfortable with what I'm doing?
You are unique. There is no one like you and you have your fingerprints to prove that too (no one has the same fingerprints). Are you comfortable to changing into something you aren’t, are you comfortable to change into someone who is less unique? Are you willing to be the same as others who too are trying to improve themselves.
5. Have I done enough for myself?
Do you feel like you have done enough? Have you accomplished something special in your life? If not then go for it! Everyone has done something for themselves no matter how big or small. Make sure you do too.
Not everyone is perfect but there is no need to be either. Everyone is unique in their special way and to try and become perfect you are becoming less unique as a lot of people too are trying to become perfect. Ask yourself these 5 questions to get a better insight to yourself and that will help you know what you need to improve yourself.
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